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Things I've learned, in one place.

Sharing bits from nearly five decades of work, gathered here for you, books, talks, essays, short videos, recovery tips and now a podcast of my own. Take what helps. Leave the rest for later. This is here whenever you need it.

Books

Books by Carolyn Costin.

8 Keys to Recovery From an Eating Disorder

8 Keys to Recovery From an Eating Disorder

Carolyn Costin & Gwen Schubert Grabb

8 Keys is Carolyn Costin's most popular book and is the heart of her philosophy, written with Gwen Grabb, a former client, now a therapist, both recovered from their own eating disorder. A summary of the most fundamental keys to recovery, such as how to strengthen the healthy self, how to challenge thoughts and feel feelings, specific strategies on changing behaviors, and finding deeper meaning and purpose, essentially offering a path to Becoming and Staying Recovered.

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The 8 Keys Workbook

The 8 Keys Workbook

Carolyn Costin & Gwen Schubert Grabb

An important addition to the original book, in workbook format, new material, exercises, journal prompts and challenges that move things along. Where reading becomes doing, and doing is how Becoming Recovered happens.

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The Eating Disorder Sourcebook, 3rd edition

The Eating Disorder Sourcebook

Carolyn Costin

A comprehensive sourcebook, this 3rd edition is a sought-after, important resource for anyone wanting to better understand and treat eating disorders, covering causes, symptoms, and various aspects of treatment such as philosophical approaches, how to do individual, group and family therapy, and even medical issues. A must in anyone's eating disorder library.

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100 Questions & Answers About Eating Disorders

100 Questions & Answers About Eating Disorders

Carolyn Costin

Carolyn Costin, recovered herself and an expert in the field of eating disorders for decades, answers the questions everyone asks, plainly and kindly. An easy, straightforward place to start, especially for brand new clinicians and families finding their footing.

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Yoga and Eating Disorders: Ancient Healing for Modern Illness

Yoga and Eating Disorders: Ancient Healing for Modern Illness

Edited by Carolyn Costin & Joe Kelly

The book explains how yoga can help mend the disconnect in mind, body, and spirit that happens with individuals who suffer from eating disorders. It bridges the knowledge and practice gaps between mental health providers and yoga practitioners who work with clients suffering from these illnesses. Combining the wisdom of 20 experts in eating disorders treatment and yoga practice, editor Joe Kelly, along with editor and contributing author Carolyn Costin, show how and why yoga's mind-body connection facilitates treatment and recovery.

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Your Dieting Daughter: Antidotes Parents can Provide for Body Dissatisfaction, Excessive Dieting, and Disordered Eating (Second Edition)

Your Dieting Daughter: Antidotes Parents Can Provide

Carolyn Costin, revised second edition (2013)

Your Dieting Daughter, second edition, is a must read for anyone wanting to help contribute to a young woman's development of a healthy self and body esteem, whether she is 13 or 30. Costin updated the first edition to reflect 15 additional years of expertise on dealing with the tricky issues of body image, food, and weight in a culture that places an unhealthy emphasis on being thin. Chapters guide parents in the Do's and Don'ts that will help a daughter to accept, respect, and care for her body. Whether you are interested in being a good role model for your daughter, helping girls and women currently suffering from an eating disorder or body image issues, or raising the next generation of girls to value the size of their heart over their body size, this is an important book.

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Anorexia and Bulimia: A Nutritional Approach to the Deadly Eating Disorders

Anorexia and Bulimia: A Nutritional Approach to the Deadly Eating Disorders

Alexander Schauss & Carolyn Costin

Experts in behavioral therapy and issues where nutrition and mental illness overlap, the authors explore the complex world of eating disorders and discuss a nutritional approach that has had astonishing success in many cases, outlining the psychological and biochemical causes of these life-threatening eating disorders and a comprehensive program to address them.

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The framework

The 8 Keys to Recovery.

The 8 Keys are consolidated from Carolyn's and Gwen's combined decades of experience in the field, including their own therapy relationship.

The book and workbook offer specific strategies that lead to becoming recovered, with the primary focus on how to get better rather than why you got sick. The books were written as self-help books but are now also used in treatment centers worldwide, and are the core of Carolyn's philosophy and the spine of our CCI curriculum for coaches.

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Motivation, patience, and hope
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Your Healthy Self will heal your Eating Disorder Self
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It's not about the food
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Feel your feelings, challenge your thoughts
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It is about the food
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Changing your behaviors
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Reach out to people rather than your eating disorder
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Finding meaning and purpose
8 Keys to Recovery From an Eating Disorder book cover
The book behind the framework

8 Keys to Recovery From an Eating Disorder

Carolyn's framework, co-written with Gwen Schubert Grabb.

Carolyn's podcast

Becoming Recovered: Body & Soul.

My own podcast is finally here, intimate conversations with people from all walks of life about what it takes to become recovered, soul work, life without an eating disorder, and numerous things that my fifty years in the field has taught me. Leave your email for episode news and updates from Carolyn.

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Becoming Recovered: Body & Soul podcast cover
Listen

Podcast appearances.

Over the years I've been lucky to be a guest on some wonderful shows, talking about all sorts of things, recovery, dealing with resistance, care of the soul, coaching, the 8 Keys, yoga and so much more. A few favourites, settle in.

Beyond Body — Mia Findlay
Full Recovery & Recovery Coaching

A conversation with Mia Findlay on what full recovery really means, and the role of recovery coaching.

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Change the Narrative — JD & Suzy Fuller
Eating Disorders, Resilience & Recovery

With JD and Suzy Fuller, on the path from anorexia to a life fully recovered.

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ReNourished — Millie Thomas & Olivia Soha
The 8 Keys, a series

A multi-part series with Millie Thomas and Olivia Soha, walking through the 8 Keys to recovery.

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TuTu Thin Podcast
TuTu Thin Podcast
Carolyn Costin Interview

Founding Monte Nido, weaving meditation and yoga into healing, and why I started the Institute.

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The SeasonED RD
The SeasonED RD
Put Me In Coach — I'm Ready

What it really takes to be ready to help someone recover, proper training, and lived experience used well.

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Butterfly Foundation
Butterfly Foundation
Let's Talk In Depth

Honored to be the first guest on their flagship series, a wide, heartfelt conversation about a lifetime's work.

“Nobody has had a more profound impact on the treatment of eating disorders than Carolyn Costin.”, Butterfly Foundation
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Recovery Warrior Show
Recovery Warrior Show
How Personality Fuels Your Eating Disorder

Loosening ego's grip on your worth, practicing acceptance, your traits aren't the enemy, they can be your assets.

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Trauma Warriors — Soul Sessions
Trauma Warriors — Soul Sessions
The Soul of Disordered Eating

The soul's part in healing, because an eating disorder grows where soul has been forgotten.

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Seven Health
Seven Health
Keys to Recovery (Ep. 204)

Chris Sandel and I take the 8 Keys apart, a generous, wide-ranging talk that goes well beyond the book.

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Recovery Bites
Recovery Bites
Investing in Yourself (Ep. 57)

Choosing yourself, acceptance over resistance, the old messages we carry, and what holds us steady.

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End Eating Disorders
End Eating Disorders
The 8 Keys Explained

All eight keys and why each one matters, none optional, all part of becoming fully recovered.

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Impact the World with Lee Harris
Impact the World with Lee Harris
Care of the Soul for Healing the Body

Why you can't heal the body while starving the soul, and how tending both is the whole point.

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Press & media

In the press.

A few of the places Carolyn's work has been featured over the years.

Portia de Rossi
“Carolyn Costin was my eating disorder therapist, and I credit her with my recovery.”
Portia de Rossi , on 8 Keys to Recovery From an Eating Disorder
Written works

Essays to download.

A handful of pieces I've written over the years, yours to read whenever the moment is right.

Tending the Soul During the Holiday Season

Holidays are supposed to be happy times, but what if we don't feel happy, and what can we do about it?

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How To Get the Most Out of Treatment

Insights from clients on getting the most out of your treatment team.

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Soul Lessons

There exists a sleeping sickness of the soul, its most dangerous aspect is that one is unaware of its coming.

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Why I Do Not Use The 12 Step Approach

The addiction model of treatment for eating disorders was originally taken from the disease model of alcoholism.

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Food, Feelings and the Holidays

Holidays are supposed to be happy times; why do so many people get depressed?

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Our Bodies, Ourselves

How contemporary culture's treatment of the female body affects both clinicians and clients.

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The Mindful Therapist

On the decision to sit down and listen to other people's suffering for a living.

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From the blog

Reflections.

Short, personal pieces from over the years; recovery wisdom, soul work, and a few thoughts on the seasons of a life.

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Video series

Carolyn’s Tips to becoming Recovered.

Short videos, a minute or two each, with the kind of practical tips I give both clients and clinicians. Gathered from almost fifty years of walking alongside people on their way to becoming recovered. Tap any one to watch.

Reaching Out for Help
Conscious Eating vs. Intuitive Eating
Don't Get Stuck on the Why
Your Healthy Self vs. Your Eating Disorder Self
Write Before a Behavior
Food Logs
Set a Timer
It Often Gets Harder Before It Gets Better
Three Things Recovered People Know
Do the Harder Thing
The Eating Disorder Can't Be More Powerful Than You
Food Rules

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